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Secrets of the Single Girl

"I don't need a prince to save me. I need a king to help me take over the world."

~ Allison Eckhart

 

 

I started Secrets of the Single Girl while navigating the absolute chaos of dating, relationships, friendships and life in Los Angeles. For years, I shared the good dates, the bad dates, the men I probably should have blocked, and everything I learned along the way.

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Then something unexpected happened.

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I actually found him.

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But finding love doesn't mean the story ends. If anything, it just gives me more to talk about.

Welcome to Secrets of the Single Girl — dating, relationships, love, sex, friendship, beauty, travel, and all the wonderfully questionable decisions in between.

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I survived the apps. I found my person. I still have secrets to tell.

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About Me

I guess this is where I write about myself…a girl's favorite thing, right? I like long walks on the beach, tequila and puppies. And apparently, after all these years, this still sounds like a dating profile.

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Here we go. I'm cough cough in my 30s, originally from Atlanta, and I've called Los Angeles home since 2013. I have a career I love, incredible friends, a slight tequila obsession, and more stories than I probably have any business putting on the internet.

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I started Secrets of the Single Girl because of a broken heart…crazy, right? I had read a million self-help books and dating blogs trying to figure out what the hell I was doing wrong when I realized something: I wasn't alone.

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So I started writing.

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I wrote about the dates, the apps, the heartbreaks, the hookups, the red flags I definitely ignored, the men my friends warned me about, and the never-ending search for "the one."

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And then, after 12 years on dating apps…

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I found him.

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Turns out the single girl got her happy ending. But don't worry — she didn't suddenly become boring.

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Because finding the one doesn't mean I've forgotten everything it took to get here. And it definitely doesn't mean I've run out of things to say.

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So consider this the next chapter of Secrets of the Single Girl: love, relationships, friendships, beauty, travel, life in Los Angeles, and all the things I've learned — usually the hard way — along the way.

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I survived the apps. I found my person. And I still have secrets to tell. ♥

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